Those who talk about "autism monsters" are the same New York and Washington press corps media darlings who never met a camera or a microphone they could turn down .... unlike the severely autistic children of many parents. They are the same phony autism self advocates, and parents of very high functioning autistic children, who make false allegations about parents of severely autistic children calling autistic people "monsters" when in point of fact they are the only ones using that term, a term they use when they cry because others who actually know what they are talking about describe honestly the harsher realities of severe autism disorders.
Those who are currently attacking parents of severely autistic children are the same bunch of pompous pontificators who tell the world that autism is a joy or a blessing or a culture not .... heaven forbid .... a disorder or group of disorders. In their silly, ill informed minds it is wrong to speak about autism as a mental health disorder. It is the same silly bunch that forget that they, or their children, actually have a medical disorder diagnosis. These same ignorant self appointed judges even object to terms like "severe" autism as though the severe autism of my son even remotely resembles the "autism" of the corporate trustees in the alleged Autism "Self" Advocacy Network corporation.
The fact is that severe autism can be difficult, very difficult to deal with day in, day out, over more than 20 years. It can involve self injurious behavior. It can involve reactive violence. In almost all cases it involves severely autistic and intellectually disabled people committing violent acts without knowing what they are doing. It also involve people most of whom will never achieve gainful employment and people who will live, if they are lucky in the care of others. These are facts which are largely unknown in any real sense to the reprehensible attack dogs who feel free to use their corporate sponsored pulpits to attack parents dealing with much more serious challenges, and as they and their children grow older, dealing with the fears of what will happen to their children after they die.
The truth is that most parents of severely autistic children are reluctant to speak about the harsh realities of severe autism in their home. They have to deal with those realities themselves while the world at large is misled about autism realities.
Few people today are aware that some autistic children do injure their parents on occasion. I believe it is fairly described. as CNN's Dr. Sanjay Gupta did, as "reactive", non intentional aggression. A few years ago, as my son was hitting himself in the head repeatedly at 2 in the morning, I tried to stop him. I tried various diversionary verbal games that had worked in the past to no avail. Finally I reached for his arms in an attempt to stop him from hurting himself further. His much younger reflexes moved quickly and he bit me on the bicep with enough force that he pierced not just the skin of my arm but the muscle itself resulting in a calcium buildup that required treatment. He was not trying, in any sense, to harm me. My son is a tremendous joy as the pictures on the sidebars of this blog and regularly shown on this blog attest but when he has a meltdown he can harm himself and is very challenging to deal with and these are realities unknown to the "autism as culture" pontificators adored by corporate interests.
Four years ago Gertrude Steuernagel, a university professor, was beaten to death in her own home by her 18 year old severely autistic son who also forcefully resisted and inflicted some harm on police officers who arrested him. That case is not representative of most severe autism realities but some parents are hurt to lesser extents by their severely autistic children who mean them no harm but are having severe meltdowns. The parents, by and large suffer in silence, for fear there will be consequences for their children or themselves and with the certain knowledge that the presumed knowledgeable high functioning self advocates and parents of HFA persons will condemn them to the public.
What pushes many fears for parents though is the knowledge that few resources suitable for persons with severe autism disorders, including decent, modern residential care facilities exist for their children. Advocating for such resources, as I have found out personally, is made more difficult by the feel good rhetoric of the times. Waves of feel good cliches like "community", "inclusion", "ableism" etc. have taken the place of sound policy and maintenance of appropriate ranges of services for those most severely affected by conditions like severe autism disorders.
Ignorance is not bliss when it misinforms the world about serious, severe autism disorder realities.
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